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WatchWord · Ages 11-20 · In use

zesty

Lively or flashy. Most often used to tease a boy for acting in a way others see as feminine or flamboyant.

Why are you walking so zesty?

For parents and educators

Sometimes playful, but often a way to hint someone is gay as a put-down. Repeated at one kid, it can be homophobic bullying.

If you’re worried

If your child is being called this repeatedly, or uses it to mock others, talk about why it hurts. Kids Help Phone: 1-800-668-6868 or text 686868. LGBTQ+ youth can also reach out there for support.

Where it came from

An old word for tangy food that picked up its slang meaning on TikTok and X.

Also heard as

zesty ahh

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