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holding space

Joking that you're emotionally supporting something trivial, like a snack or a song. Said with exaggerated seriousness.

I'm holding space for the last slice of pizza.

For parents and educators

Harmless. The original phrase is a real counselling idea about listening without judging.

Where it came from

From a viral 2024 interview for the movie Wicked, where the actors reacted very emotionally to the phrase.

Also heard as

holding space for defying gravity

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