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Vaping is common among teens, and a Université Laval study of nearly 7,000 Québec students found that dependence is the barrier teens who want to quit mention most often.

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Should I worry?

Many teens who try to quit vaping run into real obstacles, and researchers found that dependence is the one they mention most, ahead of friends who vape. That means a teen who keeps vaping may not be shrugging it off: they may have tried to stop and found it harder than expected. Possible signs include irritability or restlessness, slipping away often to vape, a sweet or fruity smell, and using more than before. Stay calm, ask before you assume, and treat quitting as a health matter, not a discipline one. Offer to look into help together, such as your family doctor, a pharmacist or the school nurse. Punishment tends to push it out of sight.

How to join in

Vaping is part of the social landscape at many Québec high schools: flavours, small devices that are easy to hide, and friends who do it. Many teens started because it seemed harmless or because friends were doing it, and some now feel stuck. A good way in is curiosity: ask what they see at school, whether anyone they know wants to stop, and what that looks like. Listening without judging tells them you are a safe person to come to if they ever want help.

Try saying

“I read that a lot of teens who want to stop vaping find it really hard, and that's not a weakness, it's how dependence works. I'm not here to punish you or lecture you. If you or a friend ever wants to cut back or quit, I'd like to help you figure it out.”

If you’re worried

If your teen wants to quit, start with your family doctor, a pharmacist or the school nurse, who can suggest support suited to their age. Kids Help Phone is there for teens at 1-800-668-6868 or by texting 686868. If your teen has trouble breathing or feels very unwell, call 911. If they talk about hurting themselves, call or text 988.

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