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ContextPhrase · Ages 14-18 · In use

sneaky link

Someone you are secretly hooking up with, or the secret meetup itself.

For parents and educators

Often used jokingly or in song lyrics. If it is real, the secrecy is the part to ask about: is the other person a peer, and does your child feel respected? It can open a talk about consent and healthy relationships.

Where it came from

Popularized by a 2021 song and TikTok trend.

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