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ConnectPhrase · Ages 11-25 · In use

red flag

A warning sign about someone, especially a crush or partner. A "walking red flag" is someone with lots of them. Often typed as 🚩.

He checks her phone? Red flag 🚩🚩

For parents and educators

Often used for silly things too, like liking pineapple on pizza. A great word to borrow when talking about healthy and unhealthy relationships.

Where it came from

An old phrase for a warning signal that took off in dating talk on TikTok.

Also heard as

🚩, walking red flag, major red flag

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