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love bombing

Showering someone with over-the-top affection, compliments and gifts very early, often to gain control over them.

He said he loved me after our first date, that's love bombing.

For parents and educators

It's good that teens know this word: it names a real warning sign. It is also a classic grooming pattern when an older person does it to a young teen online.

If you’re worried

If someone, especially an older person or a stranger online, is rushing your child with intense affection, gifts or secrecy, talk about it calmly. Report online exploitation at Cybertip.ca. Kids Help Phone: 1-800-668-6868 or text 686868.

Where it came from

A term from psychology about manipulative relationships, now common on TikTok.

Also heard as

love bomb, love bomber

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