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ContextPhrase · Ages 11-25 · In use

friend zone

When someone you like only sees you as a friend.

I asked him to the dance and got friendzoned.

For parents and educators

Common and mostly self-mocking. Some people use it as if a friend owes them more, which is a useful thing to gently question.

Where it came from

Popularized by a 1994 episode of the sitcom Friends.

Also heard as

friendzone, friendzoned, friend-zoned

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