ContextAbbreviation · Ages 13-25 · In use
bffr
Be fucking for real. A strong way to say come on, I don't believe you, or that's ridiculous.
you finished the essay already? bffr
For parents and educators
It contains a swear word, but it's usually playful disbelief between friends.
Where it came from
A swear-word version of be for real, common since about 2022. Before that it sometimes meant a best friend.
Also heard as
BFFR
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