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A note for families: Misogyny among students

Watch Ages 12-17 Last checked February 23, 2026

What it is

Teacher unions in Québec report more misogynistic, homophobic and transphobic remarks and gestures among students, which can hurt classmates and get kids who join in into trouble at school.

How much it matters

Real but nuanced. Usually fine; it depends on the kid and how they use it.

Should you worry?

Teachers say that jokes, insults and gestures aimed at girls, gay students and trans students are becoming more common in hallways and group chats. Kids can be on the receiving end, or repeat what they hear to fit in without seeing how it lands. Warning signs: your child suddenly avoids school or a friend group, seems withdrawn after messages, repeats demeaning remarks about girls or LGBTQ+ people, or laughs these off as 'just jokes'. Stay calm, ask open questions, and listen before correcting. If your child is targeted, keep screenshots and bring them to the school, which has a duty to act. If your child is the one making the remarks, set a clear limit on the behaviour and keep the relationship open.

What to say

“I've been hearing that some jokes about girls and about gay or trans kids are going around at school. What do you notice, and how does it feel when it happens? If you ever get hurt by it, or catch yourself laughing along when you'd rather not, you can tell me and I won't freak out.”

If you’re worried

If your child is being harassed or targeted, tell the school administration and keep copies of messages. If there are threats or immediate danger, call 911. Kids Help Phone is available to your child at 1-800-668-6868 or by texting 686868, any time.

Sources

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