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Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 4

A new mature-rated military shooter is getting heavy coverage from teen-popular YouTube creators, so many younger players and viewers will want it; it is mostly a content-fit and online-chat question, not a danger.

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Should I worry?

This is a mature-rated game, so the first step is to look at the age rating on the store page and decide whether the violence and language fit your teen. The bigger everyday issue is online play: voice and text chat with strangers can bring insults, trash talk and sometimes pressure to move to other apps. Check the privacy and chat settings on the console or account, set the limits you are comfortable with, and agree on play times. If your teen is younger than the rating, you do not have to say yes, but a clear reason and a calm conversation will go further than a flat ban. Watch for changes in mood after play, secrecy about who they talk to, or unexpected spending.

How to join in

Call of Duty is one of the biggest shooter series around, and a new release means friends are playing it together and creators are posting walkthroughs, story recaps and 'is it good?' reviews. Teens like it for the team play, the competition and the shared talk about the new game. An easy way in is to ask what they think of the new one, or to watch a story recap with them and ask what they like about it. If they are old enough for it in your view, you could play a round together or sit in while they play with friends.

Try saying

“I saw the new Call of Duty is out and everyone's talking about it. What's the appeal for you? I want to know who you play with and how the chat is, and we can figure out together what works for our house.”

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